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I am going through a nasty divorce after 6 yrs of marriage cheating happened on both sides age difference did not help he is 38 yrs old and i am only turning 26. I have two kids a 3 yr old son from an affair that i had and 5 yr old daughter thats getting a paternity test because of same affair .We lived very well my current home is worth 500,000 our furnishings are worth worth about 25-30 grand i can not afford to maintain this lifestyle.My hubby wants to have the house sold so he can move back in ex.wife who he was having an affair with and his 2 kids. I have not worked in 3 yrs so cant afford to keep home and i only have 8,000 in savings at present i have never had to manage money.My daughter is used to having whatever she wants and so is my son i am used to giving them nothing but top of the line?Neither child understands what going on at the moment?
In June I will have pack up my 2 kids into my volvo with our 3 dogs and cat to move to a cheaper area.Hubby will not make it easy for me to get any money.

MY FRIENDS SAID THIS: Whats your take?

“I understand that women want equality in the work place, and trust me when I say that I am all for that.
HOWEVER, and please be open minded when I say this…women who chose this lifestyle need to not think about their families, kids, etc. Men, in history have always been hunters and gatherers…men have always provided…it’s what we do. So men are natural in the workplace, just as our very nature to a physical/sexual nature, we give up our penis, while a woman takes it in.

Women then have to bear the child and take care of them. Women who then decide to leave the house to then allow someone else to take care of their children and pursue their career again lose focus on their kids, who end up being crack addicts, emotionally unattached, and those screaming kids in
stores becuase mom and and dad don’t give them enough attention. WOMEN,need to make a choice, career or family, it can’t be both…i’m sorry, that’s just the way I feel”
I really got offended by this. I believe it takes two to make and raise a child. Women don’t have to make that choice because the parents can share responsibilities. In not all or nothing…
Aren’t we supposed to be equal? Why only women have to consider that? Why are only women taking flex time because they have children? WHY not men?

My job is not less important than his…Its his child, isn’t he supposed to spend as much time as I do?