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The doube bind issue being that women must choose a career or a family. What could women to do make it easier to do both? What could the government do? what could the employer do?

I had a 35+ year old White/Jewish proffessor named Lora who had gone to plenty of schools and achieved her PhD.

One day I got to talking with her to pry into her mind (I was curious) and basically discovered:

She perffered being a college proffessor making $70,000 a year due to the fact she basically makes her own schedule and didn’t have to work 9-5 5 days a week. Though she could easily get $110,000 in the board of ed with those credentials.

She wanted to buy a house and though her credit was perfect, she couldn’t afford the mortgage in the area she wanted – especially not alone.

When I talked to her about marriage, that is when you could see she noticeably got tense. She wants to have a husband and children (she’d have availability for children as a proffessor) but frankly, I am not sure how many White men there are who would want a woman who MAKES MORE THAN THEM and holds higher education credentials.
in sociology, there is a term called “MOMMY TRACK” which basically is about women who put off marriage and family in order to get ahead in the workplace. This is a consequence of the baby boomer age – more women in the workplace with proffessional jobs. As many of you allready know however, having a “late family” tends to be just as stressful, if not more problematic than having one in your mid 20’s. I myself am currently a male, achieving proffessional degrees in education and I want to marry at 30 or around 30 – as a high paid NYC teacher.
I think I’m basically going to search for a leggy, sex starved female working in education like those hot secretaries and teachers you read about.

I think it is easier for older men to get good wives than it is for older women to get good husbands, especially if you are a high paid man in the workforce.

Do you agree with me on this? Are you women out there willing to sacrifice marriage placing your future family rearing at risk?
purple,

I’m talking about the sex starved women in the proffession who choose a career track OVER raising a family and find themselves ALONE – 30 years old searching for a good man. I’m not talking about a “Paris Hilton” airhead blonde.